First time with an Escort
Seeing an escort for the first time can be nerve racking and can bring on anxiety for some. Mostly gentleman feel nervous about how to present themselves and are unsure of what to do.
Now you can imagine how many guys want to see an escort but are too nervous to take the first steps. We have put together a guide to help anyone who is unsure about what to expect on their first time.
It’s important to remember that every escort does things in their own way so no two are the same. Therefore stay flexible and try to pay attention to the preferences of the escorts you are seeing.
Now that you have found a girl that seems right for you, and you have booked her. Here are ways to prepare for your escorts and what to expect.
Things to do before she arrives:
Whether it’s an in call at your home or a hotel make sure your space is tidy – especially the bathroom, since you’ll both probably need to spend some time there before and after your liason. Always make sure you have a few clean towels ready.
You will make the best impression if you are clean and well-dressed. A bit of mouthwash and/or freshly brushed teeth are always appreciated too!
Things to do when she arrives:
When your escort arrives, be friendly but put together , as though she were a regular guest in your home. Give her some time to relax to her surroundings, including the offer of a glass of water or perhaps a tour of your house to put her in ease.
Make sure you give her the fee up front to avoid any mistrust. Most ladies prefer an envelope of cash to a messy wad of notes. The sooner you do this, the sooner you can both put it out of your minds and concentrate on the fun stuff!
The Escort may need to call her driver or a friend so that they know she is safe – please don’t take this personally, it is something that needs to be done with every client to ensure their safety.
DON’T try to get sexy, grabby or kissy with her before the fee has been paid, it’s rude and will make her feel uncomfortable.
Health Check and Hygiene
Once things are comfortable, she might perform a health check on you, which is when she takes a look at your ‘bits’ to make sure you don’t have anything scary going on down there. This sounds awkward but a good escort will make it fun. However not every girl will this – It should be noted that many Escorts won’t check you straight away… but they will be having a discreet look while you’re together, so if you have anything down there that needs to be checked out by a GP it’s best to get it all fixed up well before your booking.
You might also be ask you to shower, even if you did so before she arrived. Like the safety call, this is nothing personal and doesn’t reflect on you at all. It’s just a standard procedure to make sure you’re both as fresh as possible.
Everyone is different in their approach of getting things started. It’s quite an interesting experience getting intimate with someone you have only just met! I would suggest to start off with a glass of wine and a casual conversation on the sofa or bed, then perhaps some cuddling or kissing to lead into more heavy foreplay. If you’re not sure what feels right, let your Escort set the pace. Don’t be afraid to admit you are nervous or unsure. If there is something you want but you’re not sure if it’s moving too fast, feel free to ask- “may I kiss you?” or “is it ok if we go to the bedroom?” Asking is sexy and it’s appreciate. On the whole, your escort should be setting the pace for you with a view to having as much fun as possible in the time you have.
Getting into the sexy stuff
When it comes to getting it on in the bedroom, your experience depends on your escort and on what you are comfortable with. Generally a service will include oral sex on you and intercourse, but keep in mind that you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. If you just feel like a blow job or a hand job it’s fine to ask for that.
Safe sex is really important and you’ll need to follow your escort’s lead. She will supply condoms and lube, and is responsible for putting the condom on correctly.
Keep in mind that this is about the whole experience, not just about getting off. Your escort will do her best to look after you but in the end it’s your responsibility as to whether you cum or not. A lot of guys are nervous their first time around and don’t get hard, or get hard but are too nervous to cum. If this happens to you, try not to beat yourself up – it happens all the time and it’s understandable. Relax and keep doing whatever feels good! Even if it doesn’t happen exactly the way you planned, you don’t have to worry or be embarrassed. This is your time to enjoy yourself and no one is going to judge you as long as you are respectful and friendly.
Speaking of respect, be attentive to her wishes. If she tells you to be gentler or asks to change positions it’s important to respect her, because unless she’s having fun too it’s going to be a pretty miserable experience. It’s polite to ask before penetrating her (including with fingers) or touching her anywhere sensitive. And for god’s sake, don’t go anywhere near her ass without asking first!
Ending your session
Your booking will generally finish up with some cuddling and chatting, with 10 or 15 minutes left over so that your lady can take a shower. It’s her responsibility to watch the time, however feel free to ask how much time you have left if you think she might be running late.
She will take a shower and gather up her things. She may need to make a call for her driver to pick her up. When she is ready to leave, thanks are always appreciated if you had a good time. There’s no need to promise you’ll book again, and no pressure to tip her unless you really want to.
If you are interested in booking your first Escort get in touch with our Kent Escort Agency. At Kent Escorts we have variety of escorts that offer many different services from different nationalities. At Kent Escorts you will find the best escorts in Kent and surrounding area’s. We have voluptuous busty gals, Sexy blonde Escorts, gorgeous brunette Escorts, Black escorts, English Escorts, european Escorts, Brazilian Escorts, and adventurous anal Escorts.
When you call us at Escorts Kent make sure to mention what sort of escort and service you are after. We will be sure to have an escorts that meets your expectations!
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